Free · evidence-based · scored in your browser

Am I dating …?

Finish the question. Each answer is a short screener built only from documented evidence — every item cites its source, and your answers never leave this page.

a bot? a scammer? soon a narcissist? soon an avoidant partner? soon

No account. No ads. No analytics. Nothing stored.

“Alex”, 34 · matched 3 days ago signal check

You have such a beautiful soul. I felt a connection from your very first message, my love.

⚑ love-bombing — day 1

ha, thanks — want to hop on a quick video call tonight?

My camera is broken and the connection here is terrible. But I think about you every moment.

⚑ avoids live video — 3rd excuse

2 of 16 signals flagged · run the full check →

01 — Answer

Sixteen questions, three minutes

About how they talk, the story they tell, and what they ask for — not who they claim to be.

02 — Score

Scored in your browser

No account, no upload. The tab does the math and nothing leaves it.

03 — Evidence

Citations, not vibes

Every point in your score traces to a documented scam or bot pattern — the full rubric is on the methodology page.

$1.16B

lost to romance scams in the first nine months of 2025, per FTC figures.

4.5×

more revenue extracted per scam operation when AI is involved.

26%

of 90,000+ people surveyed admit flirting with a chatbot — some unknowingly.